I had organized a family "stuff" swap, but not one person there wanted to participate. My Jeep trunk was loaded with "giveaway" items from toys to sewing materials to heirloom jewelry. But not even one person asked where was my loot or when I would get it out.
So I brought it all back home, boxed it up for another chance to give it away, and marked that up as a missed chance. Not missed for me, but for those who did not want to participate. I still have the "stuff." And I won't be too eager to give it away to those family members again.